He who covers his sins will not prosper, But whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy. (Proverbs 28:13, N.K.J.V.)
A businessman stopped at a restaurant and ordered a cup of coffee. The waitress didn’t even try to disguise her annoyance at such a small order that would no doubt be followed by a small tip. When she did return with the cup of coffee her body language let the businessman know that she didn’t appreciate him or his order. But as she walked away, the businessman dared to press the situation even further. He said, “If you wouldn’t mind, I’d like some cream, some sugar, a spoon, a napkin, and a saucer for the cup.” Now the waitress was really perturbed. She said, “Well, aren’t you the demanding one?” To that the businessman replied, “Hey, look at it from my point of view. All I ordered was a cup of coffee and you made five mistakes with that!”
It cuts against our human nature to admit when we are wrong. Since being wrong walks hand in hand with being inadequate or inferior, for us to admit wrongdoing is tantamount to admitting that we require improvement. It is us saying to the world, “I didn’t measure up in this particular situation.”
Christian, could it be that you are right now in the wrong about something? Maybe you are committing a wrong act. Maybe you are thinking a wrong thought. Maybe you are harboring a wrong opinion. Maybe you are working on a wrong project. Maybe you are holding a wrong attitude. Maybe you are judging someone wrongly. Maybe you are chasing a wrong dream.
Each of us would do well to submit to a self-assessment and ask God to show us any way in which we are in the wrong. We shouldn’t invent something if nothing is there, but we definitely shouldn’t ignore something that God points out to us. If He does point out something, our proper response is to utter those two awful words, “I’m wrong” and ask Him to help us get in the right. And it goes without saying that if our wrong crosses over the line and actually becomes sin, we should confess the sin, repent of it immediately, and find our forgiveness in Jesus.
The Bible is filled with characters who did wrong things. It lets us see people “warts and all.” It is also, however, a book that sings the praises of admittance, confession, and repentance. According to an old saying, the first thing you must do to get out of a hole is stop digging. Well, in regards to you getting right about being wrong, for you to stop digging you must admit your wrongdoing.
You see, you’re never going to make any progress with the Lord as long as your mouth is full of excuses for why you are doing wrong. That’s not what He wants to hear from you. What He wants to hear from you is, “Lord, I realize now that I’ve been wrong; please help me get right.” Yes, everything really does start with you admitting that you’re wrong, but if you won’t even do that, all that’s left to say to you is, “Keep digging.”

Choosing the East Side of the Jordan
Numbers chapter 32 provides us with a fascinating twist in the history of Moses and the Israelites. The twist involves the tribes of Reuben and Gad as well as half the tribe of Manasseh, and it holds multiple metaphorical lessons for us in regards to the spiritual life. That’s why every Christian should understand the story.
As the story opens, Moses and the Israelites are in the final stages of their forty years of wandering in the wilderness regions surrounding the land of Canaan. Those forty years had been God’s judgment upon the people for being too unbelieving and cowardly to cross over the Jordan river, go to war with the inhabitants of Canaan, and take the land forty years earlier (Numbers chapters 13 and 14). But now a new generation of Israelites was preparing to right the wrong of that previous generation.
God had already decreed that Moses himself would not be the one to lead the nation in its conquest of Canaan. A certain sin that Moses had recently committed at Kadesh had cost him that opportunity (Numbers 20:1-13). Joshua (Moses’ right-hand man, successor, and military General) would be the one to lead Israel in the conquering of Canaan. In the run-up to that full-scale invasion, certain territories on the eastern side of the Jordan river had already been conquered (Numbers chapters 21 through 31).
That set the stage for the events of Numbers chapter 32. As part of those recent victories, the Israelites had conquered the land of Jazer and the land of Gilead. Basically, this was all the territory between the Arnon river and the Yarmuk river (Joshua 12:1-6). What made those lands particularly appealing was the fact that they were perfect for raising livestock. This appeal hadn’t gone unnoticed by the Israelite tribes of Reuben and Gad, both of which owned large herds of livestock, most of which were the spoils of a recent plundering of the Midianites (Numbers chapter 31). The appeal of the lands caused the leaders of the two tribes to think, “No matter what the other side of the Jordan river holds for us, it can’t be better than what we have right here.”
So, the leaders of the two tribes went to Moses and asked if he would give them the lands as their inheritance and allow them to settle there (32:1-5). They even said, “Do not take us over the Jordan (v.5, N.K.J.V.) But Moses’ response, not unpredictably, was one of fury. He accused the two tribes of being cowards who wanted to remain in safety while their fellow tribes went to war in Canaan (32:6-7). He also told them they were acting like their ancestors had acted forty years earlier in refusing to take Canaan (32:8-14) and called them “a brood of sinful men” (32:14).
It was at this point that the leaders of the two tribes explained to Moses that they had no intention of not taking part in the fighting to settle Canaan. Was their response a “plan B” explanation they devised on the spot when they realized how appalled Moses was at their request? Perhaps. At any rate, their proposed plan began with them first preparing their requested lands by building pens for their livestock and cities for their women and children (32:16-17). Once those projects were completed, the fighting men from the two tribes would then take their place in Israel’s army, cross over the Jordan with the rest of Israel, and continue the warfare until Canaan was completely conquered (32:18). They would even take point by going “before” the children of Israel (32:17). Only when the land was conquered would they return to their families and herds by crossing back over the Jordan river (32:19).
After hearing this explanation Moses agreed to the request, but he warned them that they had better live up to their part of the deal (32:20-24). If they didn’t God would judge them harshly. Since Moses already knew that he wouldn’t be around to ensure that everything got handled correctly, he called in Eleazar the priest, Joshua, and the heads of all the tribes and explained the agreement to them (32:28-32). At some point, half the tribe of Manasseh got in on the deal as well because they also had livestock and liked the looks of the lands (32:39-42). A full listing of the lands and the cities that ultimately either got built, rebuilt, or conquered on the “safe” side of the Jordan river is provided in Numbers 32:33-42.
In the end, the fighting men from Reuben, Gad, and Manasseh did make good on their agreement with Moses, and they did return to their lands and settle there. Joshua 13:15-33 tells us that the tribe of Reuben settled in the southern portion of the lands, the tribe of Gad settled in the northern portions, and half the tribe of Manasseh settled furthest north in Bashan. (According to Joshua 13:1-7, the other half of the tribe of Manasseh settled in its allotted portion of Canaan.)
All this brings us to the question: “When all the dust was settled from the centuries that would follow, was the decision of the two and a half tribes to settle on the east side of the Jordan river a good one?” The answer to that is, no. Consider the results of the decision:
So, what spiritual lessons can we Christians learn from this story? Well, here are a few, and I offer them as the close to this post. Consider each one carefully and take heed that you don’t fall victim to it: