A.B. Simpson, the great Canadian preacher, used to tell the story of a father and a daughter. One day the father was sitting in his library reading one of his many books. At his feet was his little girl. She wore a cheap bead necklace around her neck as she played quietly.
Suddenly the father looked down at her and said, “Darling, do you love me?” The child answered, “Yes, Daddy, I love you more than anything else in the world.” Upon hearing that, the father said, “Then I want you to throw your necklace into the fire.”
Now the little girl was confused. “Daddy, do you really mean it?” she asked. “Yes,” said the father, “I really mean it. If you love me enough, you will want to please me at any cost.” The little girl didn’t respond immediately, but after a few agonizing seconds of inward turmoil she finally did stand up, walk over to the fireplace, take off her necklace, and throw it into the fire. Then she ran to her father, hugged him, and with tears in her eyes said, “Daddy, I don’t understand why you wanted me to do that, but I do love you.”
A few weeks later the father and child found themselves in that same library setting once again. This time, however, the father pulled a jewel case from his pocket, opened it, and brought out a beautiful necklace of real pearls. He reached it down to his daughter and said, “Darling, I want you to put these on your neck and wear them for me.” The child’s eyes filled with tears again as she gave her father another hug and said, “Daddy, I think I understand now.”
In Exodus 34:14, God illustrates how jealous He is by saying that His very name is Jealous. This shows us just how seriously He takes His relationship with His people. He doesn’t want anything or anyone to come between us and Him. Like a jealous spouse, God wants us all to Himself.
A.B. Simpson’s story reminds me of the Biblical story of God asking Abraham to offer his son Isaac as a sacrifice (Genesis 22:1-19). The request was a test for Abraham, a test that would prove how much he loved God. Isaac, as you might recall, was the miracle baby, the promised son that Abraham and his wife Sarah had waited 25 years to hold. Now God was commanding Abraham to travel to the land of Moriah and offer the now grown Isaac as a burnt offering. The whole thing seemed crazy to Abraham, but he nevertheless obeyed.
If you know the story, you know that God stopped Abraham just as Abraham was about to inflict the fatal blow with a knife. The test was over and Abraham had made an A+. The Angel of the Lord (an Old Testament preincarnate appearance of Jesus) then pronounced a great promise of blessing upon Abraham and his seed. Likening the story to A.B. Simpson’s, that was God handing Abraham an expensive pearl necklace.
Christian, the takeaway for each of us isn’t hard to understand. We must constantly stay on guard against allowing anything or anyone to come between us and God. Remember that God’s name is Jealous. That means that He is going to deal with whatever or whoever interferes with our relationship to Him. I don’t know what your “necklace” or your “Isaac” is, but you’d better make sure that it doesn’t become bigger than God in your life. And if God ever does ask you to give up something for Him, just know that He will reward you handsomely on the back end, not just in this life but in the one to come (Mark 10:28-30).

Choosing the East Side of the Jordan
Numbers chapter 32 provides us with a fascinating twist in the history of Moses and the Israelites. The twist involves the tribes of Reuben and Gad as well as half the tribe of Manasseh, and it holds multiple metaphorical lessons for us in regards to the spiritual life. That’s why every Christian should understand the story.
As the story opens, Moses and the Israelites are in the final stages of their forty years of wandering in the wilderness regions surrounding the land of Canaan. Those forty years had been God’s judgment upon the people for being too unbelieving and cowardly to cross over the Jordan river, go to war with the inhabitants of Canaan, and take the land forty years earlier (Numbers chapters 13 and 14). But now a new generation of Israelites was preparing to right the wrong of that previous generation.
God had already decreed that Moses himself would not be the one to lead the nation in its conquest of Canaan. A certain sin that Moses had recently committed at Kadesh had cost him that opportunity (Numbers 20:1-13). Joshua (Moses’ right-hand man, successor, and military General) would be the one to lead Israel in the conquering of Canaan. In the run-up to that full-scale invasion, certain territories on the eastern side of the Jordan river had already been conquered (Numbers chapters 21 through 31).
That set the stage for the events of Numbers chapter 32. As part of those recent victories, the Israelites had conquered the land of Jazer and the land of Gilead. Basically, this was all the territory between the Arnon river and the Yarmuk river (Joshua 12:1-6). What made those lands particularly appealing was the fact that they were perfect for raising livestock. This appeal hadn’t gone unnoticed by the Israelite tribes of Reuben and Gad, both of which owned large herds of livestock, most of which were the spoils of a recent plundering of the Midianites (Numbers chapter 31). The appeal of the lands caused the leaders of the two tribes to think, “No matter what the other side of the Jordan river holds for us, it can’t be better than what we have right here.”
So, the leaders of the two tribes went to Moses and asked if he would give them the lands as their inheritance and allow them to settle there (32:1-5). They even said, “Do not take us over the Jordan (v.5, N.K.J.V.) But Moses’ response, not unpredictably, was one of fury. He accused the two tribes of being cowards who wanted to remain in safety while their fellow tribes went to war in Canaan (32:6-7). He also told them they were acting like their ancestors had acted forty years earlier in refusing to take Canaan (32:8-14) and called them “a brood of sinful men” (32:14).
It was at this point that the leaders of the two tribes explained to Moses that they had no intention of not taking part in the fighting to settle Canaan. Was their response a “plan B” explanation they devised on the spot when they realized how appalled Moses was at their request? Perhaps. At any rate, their proposed plan began with them first preparing their requested lands by building pens for their livestock and cities for their women and children (32:16-17). Once those projects were completed, the fighting men from the two tribes would then take their place in Israel’s army, cross over the Jordan with the rest of Israel, and continue the warfare until Canaan was completely conquered (32:18). They would even take point by going “before” the children of Israel (32:17). Only when the land was conquered would they return to their families and herds by crossing back over the Jordan river (32:19).
After hearing this explanation Moses agreed to the request, but he warned them that they had better live up to their part of the deal (32:20-24). If they didn’t God would judge them harshly. Since Moses already knew that he wouldn’t be around to ensure that everything got handled correctly, he called in Eleazar the priest, Joshua, and the heads of all the tribes and explained the agreement to them (32:28-32). At some point, half the tribe of Manasseh got in on the deal as well because they also had livestock and liked the looks of the lands (32:39-42). A full listing of the lands and the cities that ultimately either got built, rebuilt, or conquered on the “safe” side of the Jordan river is provided in Numbers 32:33-42.
In the end, the fighting men from Reuben, Gad, and Manasseh did make good on their agreement with Moses, and they did return to their lands and settle there. Joshua 13:15-33 tells us that the tribe of Reuben settled in the southern portion of the lands, the tribe of Gad settled in the northern portions, and half the tribe of Manasseh settled furthest north in Bashan. (According to Joshua 13:1-7, the other half of the tribe of Manasseh settled in its allotted portion of Canaan.)
All this brings us to the question: “When all the dust was settled from the centuries that would follow, was the decision of the two and a half tribes to settle on the east side of the Jordan river a good one?” The answer to that is, no. Consider the results of the decision:
So, what spiritual lessons can we Christians learn from this story? Well, here are a few, and I offer them as the close to this post. Consider each one carefully and take heed that you don’t fall victim to it: